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24.05.2020Don’t confuse Camsites with a porn! I will tell you WHY!
Well, here we go! To watch porn you don't need to prepare yourself. You can look like a homeless monkey who didn't wash and shave himself for 2 weeks, smell like toilet brush and make “mooo” noises like a cow and no one cares.
But in chats (camsites) you need to be kinda ready for anything. From simple chat where “moo” noises will not quite work, to open up some of your personality (share your thoughts, talk and think). Even should be ready to appear on camera because in the end you might find it interesting and more fun.
It is for sure difficult for most people, because here you need to be ready for interaction. You have to know how to express your thoughts and share what you got on your mind. So this is not exactly THAT simple and not everyone can pull it off.
Funny thing is that Eeeveryone think that they are Sex Gigants in bed but once you start to dig in they heads most times they don't even know what to do. Because porn drained their brains and all they know now is (FUCK, anal, tits and doggy) - dry shit like that. These are people with zero imagination. They don’t know what ACTUALLY interacting with a real person means and how fun this can be.
Interaction in this case means - think, open your mind for imagination, feel the person, understand what he/she wants. It is so much deeper and bigger then just “anal in doggy” crap.
People are forgetting that sex at first happens in our brains. And if that does not happen to you then you are a very sad and basic person, who is just looking to get off, like a simple animal would do.
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Well said. This is very accurate. Thank you for sharing
Glad that it is useful :))
Yeah, it’s sad to see how many people nowadays confuse eroticism and cam sites with actual porn.
And as if that wasn’t enough, many have lost the finesse of eroticism. Today there is no room for respect, and you do not waste time on “unnecessary talk”, it just has to be straight and hard from the moment they enter a chat!
I wonder if that is fault of culture at one point. If people been raced certain sick ways and now they don’t find satisfaction in normal things. Instead of diving into person(personality) they go simply after body and outside which still do not make them happy.
There are / may be several reasons for people’s irrational / perfidious behavior when they are online, and not just on cam sites, but social media in general.
Conditions such as childhood / upbringing and role models is of course an important factor.
And then there’s origin, ethnicity and religion (I am thinking primarily of countries / regions where men by definition considered to be superior to women), they often have problems with strong and independent women, and often feel the need to belittle these women, to feel like “real” men.
But in my opinion, an even more important factor is that people today can sit anonymously behind their monitor / keyboard, and behave like total idiots without having any significant consequences, behaving like complete fools.
A final factor is that even hardcore pornography nowadays is easily available on the internet for everyone, and it gives young / less experienced people a completely wrong impression of what is normal.
Agree with every word!