Stalkers on cams!

This is a pretty creepy topic but very important too! Yes,I also had to deal with this type of people and still see these predators around sometimes. I just call them losers!

So most crazy times for me was when I just started being on cams. It was more than 10 years ago. I had zero experience on video chats and of course I had no idea about stalkers, didn't know how dangerous these people can actually be and that they wish to hurt you or even destroy you as a person. All I had was my hard ass character which saved me.

One of the most bright examples was some scary dude from the USA who seemed nice at the beginning but then turned into a complete nightmare.

All started when I saw him on camera and told him that I don't want to meet him. Reason was - he looked like a homeless creep from super scary movies. :D I’d rather meet a crocodile! (sure I didn't say it in such rude way)

After that he still went to my privates and pushed his company on me. Been calling me terrible names, promising to kill me, find my family and tell everyone what a bitch I am and what I do. Basically destroy my life. I was very confused and didn't know how to behave, every private with that person was ending with shaky hands. I was stressed out! At that time I was on a Jasmin site which of course didn't protect me. They even were on his side when he went crying that I don't undress, but oh well about them it is nothing surprising!

I also was inaccurate before and gave him my phone number which was freaking stupid to do! But back then I could not imagine that he would be such a crazy type. He would be calling me night and day! He also knew my name so really tried to find me all around the internet to harm me more. At last I was not this stupid,and turned out that with my name and even second name was not enough.

Anyways! No matter how bad this creep would attack me or insult me I never was really scared. In fact I became even more brave and more careful after some time. I showed him that “ OK if you want to kill me then come over to my country and let's see how far you will get asshat”!

But thenI learned something! I found a way to use that creep for my own good and tables turned! He hated it. I learned to not pay attention to insults after some time because I understood that it is all about him and not me! I also changed my phone number because there was no way to get rid of him other ways so that was a sacrifice in a way, oh well! :D

All I want to say! If you deal with such a situation today then be brave, be strong and never show them that you are afraid or stressed because that's what they want to see! Show them that you are capable of protecting yourself and kick smelly asses because no one has rights to tell you what to do and how to live your life! Show them where they place!

But the main thing is! Make sure not to trust people easily! When you will be least expected you will be attacked! Internet people can be scary and they can break your life!